What is the secret of success?
Right decisions.
How do you make right decisions?
Experience
How do you gain experience?
Wrong decisionsA.P.J. Abdul Kalam (former President of India)
There is the old saying that a challenge is an opportunity, not a threat and we need to see failure as a chance to learn new ways of doing things.
Theodore Roosevelt said: “The man who never makes a mistake is the man who never does anything.” and it’s true that often the most powerful way to learn how to do something right is to initially fail: we learn from our mistakes.
“The fear of making a mistake, of risking an error, or of being told you are wrong is constantly with us. And that’s a shame. Making mistakes is not the same thing as being creative, but if you are not willing to make mistakes, then it is impossible to be truly creative. I f your state of mind is coming from a place of fear and risk avoidance, then you will always settle for the safe solutions—the solutions already applied many times before.
Failing is ?ne, necessary in fact. But avoiding experimentation or risk—especially out of fear of what others may think—is something that will gnaw at your gut more than any ephemeral failure. A failure is in the past. It’s done and over. In fact, it doesn’t exist. But worrying about “what might be if…” or “what might have been if I had… ” are pieces of baggage you carry around daily. They’re heavy, and they’ll kill your creative spirit. Take chances and stretch yourself. You’re only here on this planet once, and for a very short time at that. Why not just see how gifted you are?”
“If you make the wrong decision, it’s never too late to make the right one”
courtesy of kent.ac.uk.
